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Seven Ways to beat back the doubting days

On my doubting days, I try and read something I really love—a poem by Sharon Olds, an essay by Melissa Febos or Maggie Smith, and I read these pieces slowly, savoring each word like the finest meal lovingly prepared just for me.

I’m hearing from a lot of writers that lately they are bogged down by the weight of their work and that they are unable to focus, to remain on-task. The mid-February doldrums are real and I’ve been battling a string of rejections like no other. On the doubting days, you can pour yourself a stiff drink (or a tall milkshake) and hide under the covers, or you can try something else—something more dynamic.

Here are some fabulous ideas that writers recently shared with me:

  1. I take breaks for self-care. I do 15-20 minute yoga breaks. The daily practice calms me and keeps me focused - Maureen

  2. I do comforting tasks—make slides for workshops, or remove adverbs.

  3. I give myself a break and read a good book—preferably in the bath! Jessica

  4. I keep any positive comments on my work to remind me I can actually write - K

  5. I like to work on something “almost there” that gives me a quick shot of confidence - W

  6. One of my favorite things to read is the short story by Lorrie Moore titled, “How to Be a Writer.” Julie

  7. When one project becomes a slog, I switch to a different project with a completely different kind of writing. From memoir, which is emotionally difficult to very short humor - Deb

What do you think, writers, what else do you do when you are unable to bring any creativity to your current project? What works for you? Share your thoughts and I’ll post them!